Why I Blog?

I started this blog in 2015. This is my passion not to judge people by the things I say but to encourage them. To be honest it is hard for me to think of what I should say. Everything that I put on this website comes from my heart. I believe that God wanted me to start this and so I did without hesitation, I know that it is not where I want to be as of right now but I have faith that it will get where I want it to be.

The purpose of this blog is to give hope to the hopeless, not only that as well as giving people something to look to and not be discourage when they cannot find the help or the inspiration they need. This is my passion and praise dance as well. When I started this blog I was not sure on how it will turn out to be, I was not sure what I should write about. Honestly, I can that I am glad that my blog is blessing people and I know that it will touch the lives of people that are going through a struggle in their lives.

I know this post is not like my other posts but I just wanted to do something different. I encourage whoever reads this  to tell others about this blog because there may be someone out there struggling and looking for words  of hope and wisdom. I strive to make an impact in the lives of people.

Have a blessed day everyone. Stay encouraged!!!

Faith Conquers All

The most important to have in life is faith. What is faith? There is two definitions of faith; complete trust or confidence in something or someone, and strong belief in God or in the doctrines of a religion.

  In Hebrews 11; 1-3, “Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see. 2 This is what the ancients were commended for. 3 By faith we understand that the universe was formed at God’s command, so that what was unseen was not made out of what was visible.”

As I was listening to Dr. Tony Evans podcast, Heroes of Faith series, he goes in depth explaining what faith is. In the words of Dr. Tony Evans,

“Faith is simply acting like it is so, even when it is not so, in order it might be so because God said so.” 

Let’s go back to the beginning, Genesis. When God was creating the universe he did not take clay, or a piece of glob whatever you want to call it and create the universe from it. All he did was command it. Now you cannot tell me is not awesome. Speaking it into existence and then whoop there it is. Why rely on luck when there is faith.

Take a look at the weather person. A lot of us rely on that person to tell us if the weather outside will be sunny or horrible. Whenever the weather man says there is a thirty person chance of rain we do not know if we should take an umbrella or not. That is what we do to God. We go bobbing for apples. If you can believe a man who is sometimes up sometimes down, what about God who is always right! Faith is the key to experience God. Anyone can have faith, in Hebrews 11 God uses ordinary people to tell about faith. He used a prostitute, a murderer, a liar, and etc…

Faith conquers all, ten years ago my sister dreamed of having her own salon. She worked hard for it and now she has it. There were times when her faith would go down but no matter what her faith conquered all. She experienced God. Even though she could not she her salon yet (ten years ago) but she knew that she will have own salon someday. Faith is confidence of things you do not see. Faith will not manifest itself until there is movement. Like my sister said, “Pray, plan, and push.”

Faith can reach the unreachable.

  “God wants you to trust his integrity so, you can say catch me in this this situation, catch me in this circumstance because I have learn to trust his integrity.”

– Dr. Tony Evans


We all have desires. There is not one person in this world who does not have a desire. Some of us has a desire to travel, make a difference, whatever may be the desire Gods desire for us to do his will. He does not want us to just think about ourselves while the rest of this nation is living in despair.

If your desire is to see God shift this nation then it starts with you and I. My desire is to have a deeper relationship with God. A deeper relationship where I not only just hear Gods voice but to see his power change this nation. Some of us has a desire to see all the things that God reveals to us but we need to decide to step up to the plate and believe.

God desire for us is to do what he wants. We did not get placed on this for no reason after all we are just passing through.

Psalms 37:4, “Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.” 

We need to put our faith in God. How else will we get the desires of our heart? Not by the leprechaun and his pot of gold because he do not exist. You see God does not fail at giving us our desires. So why are we failing at what God desires for us? God wants us to intervene not on the behalf of ourselves but the nation. Our desires of the heart should not just be always about what we need or what we want. Instead, it should be the desires that God has planned for us. His will. Not ours.

The desires of our hearts will not come to us that easily. Yes, it will take time for us to get our desires but first take pleasure in God then he will provide our every need. Well, not every need because he knows what is best. Sometimes we know what our desire is, other times we do not. We get afraid to take the first step of our desires but sometimes we just do not see that we have taken the first step. We get so busy trying to get the desires of our hearts that sometimes we do not recognize that God is ready to provide us the desires but he is just waiting for us to set up. So, will you set to the plate? What is your desire?

Finish the Race

  Imagine you running on a track and after you have given all you got, you decide to just quit right in the middle of the race. Meanwhile ever else is finishing theirs. Why do we start something but do not finish? Maybe you are tired, maybe there is people whispering in your ear saying that you cannot or you won’t. Stop letting them bring negativity into your life. 

   2 Timothy 4:7, “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” 

  If you do not want to run the race then why start it if you know you are not going to finish it. I have to admit there are things that I started but have not finish or stop running but I will finish it because I started. Turn those can’ts into cans. Show then that you can finish the race because you have God. 

  Let us go back to the beginning when God was creating the world. What if he started creating and then just stop right in the middle of it? You and I would not be here but God does not stop. He did not stop creating what he started so, why do you stop? God did not stop on you. He kept going so why can’t you? Ignore what people are saying about you.  

   Negativity is like hurdles (you know those things when you on the track and you have to jump over them)  trying to stop you from finishing the race. Sometimes you get caught by them and fall to ground but you cannot stop there. Get back up again no matter how many times you trip over them. Stay in the race. Speak it into existence. Believe that you will. Walk like you have it. Finish the race!!!,

You Are not Alone

      There are times in life when we feel alone because we get betrayed or stab in the back by friends.  Sometimes, we do not hear the voice of God so we feel as if he is not there listening to us. God is with us every step of the way. Through the good and bad times, he’s there. God will always be there even if we turn our backs on him. He will not make us feel as if we are not important.

    Deuteronomy 31:6 says, “Be strong and of good courage, do not be afraid of them; for the Lord your God, He is the One who goes with you. He will not leave you nor forsake you.”

 Even if all of our friends or family betray us and we feel like we on our own, do not be afraid of being alone because we still have God, who is always there, at our right hand, walking with us. I know that there is someone out there reading this feeling as if there are alone. Now I am not saying it is good to be alone because God will send people into our lives for a reason and he will remove them as well. 

    What I am saying is do not feel as if you are alone in world. Just because you cannot hear Gods voice does not mean he is not there. I have to admit that sometimes I feel I am alone but yet again, in my heart and in my mind I know that God is there listening to me. There is a song by Kari Jobs called I Am not Alone, 

            “When I walk through the deep waters 

               I know that you will be with me

             When I’m standing in the fire
              I will not be overcome 

              Through the valley of  the shadow 

               I will not fear

                I am not alone 

                 I am not alone 

                You will go before me 

                You will never leave me.”

Let this song be a reminder to us everyday, whenever we feel alone just know that we are not alone. 

The Pain of Regret

Regret; feel sad, repentant, or disappointed over.

Have you ever did something that cause you to regret what you did? The pain of regret is not a good feeling because you’re constantly thinking about how you wish you could have changed it. How you wish you could just go back in time and erase that memory. I know that I am not the only one that wishes that life has a rewind button. The truth is life does not have a button for that, all you can do is move on from it. Yes, of course it will always be there. There will be things in life that keeps bringing you back to the pain of regret.

“Thinking before acting is wisdom; acting before thinking is regret.”

Honestly, I act before I think and it is not fun because when that happens, it seems like that life is just getting worse. I regret everything that I have done. The pain of regret will not live with me forever because I have a Savior who forgives. Understand this, regret is reminding us (me and you) that we need to do better. We need to pursue a life that we once have lived or still living in the pain of regret.

2 Corinthians 7:10, ” Godly sorrows brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regrets, but worldly sorrows brings death.”

When you repent to God the pain of regret will be no more. Do not let regret produce negative feedback ask God to help you turn those regrets into positive feedback. It is time to ask God to make different choices. You and I are not alone. Pray for one another. Give God your all, as I am willing to give him all of me.


A woman or a girl in relation to other daughters…

Sisters are like a flower blooming in a garden. I have eight sisters yes eight sisters from the same parents. Each of them are unique in there own way.

Dear sisters,

I am proud to call you that… I adore each and every one of you!!! You all have achieve your goals but i know you will not stop now. When I take a look at each and every one of you, you all have different personalities but some of the same. No matter what life takes you through individually you get back up on your feet and keep moving. You are stronger than you think. You are more than what people are saying about you. You can overcome anything that life throws at you because you have people that believe in you. You have a bright future ahead of you. I am proud of your greatest accomplishments.

You have come a long way, building up towards your dreams and the plan that God has in stored. You have hope in the future because your faith is found in God alone. My sisters as I watch you all overcome the barriers that tried to stop you from getting you need to be, you have shown that nothing can stop you when God is on your side. You have each other backs, you have my back. So my dear sisters, keep living and fulfilling your dreams, or plans.  Your blessings come from above not below.




from a sister to another sister

Trusting God

Philippians 4:6, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your request to God.”

This verse is my favorite verse. When things in life do not go as the way you planned it out to be, trust God. You will run into delays, and situations will arise to get you off course but understand that you should not go outside of God to fix the issue. When God is still, he is not silent. Just because you cannot hear him yet does not mean he is not there. God is always there. Obey God as you wait.

What is God doing as you wait? There are two things that he is doing,

1) God is doing something bigger than you

2) God is testing you in order to take you deeper

There are times in life where you get tired of waiting and you want whatever it is that you asked for right away but God wants you to be prepared in order for you to receive that blessing. God wants to take you deeper first on the inside that’s why you are running into delays. A great friend of mine has said,

                    “When you pursue God’s dream for your life, you’re going to run into delays. God uses those waiting periods to prepare and test you so that you can face whatever is coming in the next phase of your faith.”

See when you trust God you should not have to worry about what tomorrow holds because God knows exactly what you need. Prepare yourself as you wait, that is the key. Trust God and his timing.

Proverbs 3:5

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.”

God  wants you to trust in him and wait on him. There’s nothing more overwhelming when God shows up and shows out when the time is right. He makes the impossible becomes possible. When you leave your situation in Gods hands believe that he will take care of the rest.

” Start looking at your situation through your revelation.”

-Sylvester Knight

When you still have God you have not lost everything.


Every Life

Every life has a story. The only way you can understand someone story is by walking in their shoes.

Have you ever met someone that told you what he or she has gone through or is going through? In your mind you’re thinking about your life. Wondering if you would have the strength to live their’s. As you hear their story, you can see the emotions on their face and feel as if you are experiencing their heartache.

Every life story can impact anyone. Imagine someone or you complaining about everything whether about their job, family, school, and etc….. and you met someone who has no job, no family, basically nothing that you have. You hear their life story and now you start to think about your life but the thing is God let you met people for a reason. Sometimes you may think that you don’t belong in someone’s but the truth is you don’t really know.

You don’t really know what impact that you have on that person life without even stepping up to plate. You don’t know what you’re capable of doing until you actually do it. People come and go but for a reason. Every life story is not the same, of course there will be some people that you meet that went through the same struggles as you but it’s  your story. There will be a day when you understand why that person is there. You may not understand why but eventually you will know.


A Kingdom Woman

Being a kingdom woman is not something that you are born with, it is something that you embrace and build up as you grow. A kingdom woman knows her values and her purpose. As I am reading A Kingdom Woman by Dr. Tony Evans and Chrystal Evans Hurst (there is A Kingdom Man book too guys so don’t feel left out), this book is helping me become the woman God has created or designed for me to be.

There are things in life that makes us (woman) who we are but a kingdom woman is committed to the life God has given her. She has hope, she’s a woman of excellence not a perfectionist though but doing the best that she can. Even though I am not married or anything like that but I am learning how to be a kingdom woman because I do not want my future husband to have a wife who doesn’t know what she’s doing. I have to prepare myself to be ready for what is to come.

A kingdom woman does not quit, she is strong and committed to the path that God has planned for her.

   Dr. Tony Evans stated, ” A kingdom woman may be defined as a woman who positions herself under and operates according to the rule of God over every area of her life.”

She does not live by what the world tells her but what God has planned for her. A woman leaves her discouragement behind by walking in the way of a kingdom woman that transform her into a kingdom woman. A kingdom woman allows God to take control of her life. So I encourage you all (any woman that are reading this) whether you are married, single, engaged, or a young adult to walk in the way of a kingdom woman and discover the possibilities in your life.